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10/08/2009

Comment posting is now registration-only

Filed under: Anti-Semitism, Site news — Meryl Yourish @ 4:30 pm

Okay, three straight days of anti-Semitic vitriol is about all I can stand at a time. So now, commenters must be registered in order to comment, and, well, sorry. Registration is closed to new users. If you are a regular reader of this blog and never got around to registering, email me and I’ll fit you in somehow.

You know which ones crack me up the most? The ones who accuse me of being a racist and then go on to tell me that all Jews are Nazis, or something like that. I figure most of those are the ones who have to wipe the spittle off their screen when they’re done reading my post.

Or they’re the ones with the little tiny dicks. Peabrains go without saying.

Then again, I do have a lot more fodder for my Freakmail folder. Time for another post of the lovely sentiments of the anti-Israel crowd, at least, when I can delve back down into the sewers again.

By the way, one thing I haven’t done in a while is invoke the Yourish.com mantra: Anti-semites of the world, just die already. That includes all the ones who left me the lovely, unapproved comments.

10/04/2009

The lightness of posting

Filed under: Life, Site news — Meryl Yourish @ 9:26 pm

It’s a sinus infection. I have antibiotics and other things. But I have no energy to post.

And I have to say, Sarah is a great friend. I am extremly crabby when I’m sick, and she just lets me gripe on the phone and doesn’t complain. I realized today how extremely crabby I was just before dinner, and I called her while I was cooking and said, “Bitchy Meryl has been banished for the rest of the day.” She laughed. (I did apologize.)

I can feel the antibiotics working already. Maybe one more good night’s sleep will get me back to being mostly human.

08/26/2009

I blame Yahoo! News

Filed under: Site news — Meryl Yourish @ 5:00 am

A heads-up to my regulars: The reason there are suddenly a few dozen new comments is because my last post on the Swedish blood libel got picked up by Yahoo! News.

I’m not quite sure how or why my posts get picked up and put on the “Most blogged about” links, but I am always grateful to the people at Yahoo! when that happens. The commenters that come in, not so much. But then again, I get to add to my Freakmail folder for future mockery.

I’m very glad that opposing viewpoints are supported by Yahoo! I’m switching Firefox to their search engine to show my support. (Not really sure about that Bing thing yet, but maybe it will get better.)

08/22/2009

Saturday

Filed under: Site news — Meryl Yourish @ 11:31 pm

One of these days, I’ll get back to posting Caturday posts. But not today. Working on the podcast. (Which I need to update, Sabba Hillel, I know, I know. I will.)

08/12/2009

Busy, busy, busy days

Filed under: Site news — Meryl Yourish @ 1:32 pm

It’s been pretty busy at work. I have a few post ideas kicking around, but no time to write them. I’ll try to get to them tonight.

08/05/2009

Well, that explains a lot

Filed under: Site news — Meryl Yourish @ 4:00 pm

I’m getting something like 40% of my traffic from feeds now. I don’t mean referrers from people like Sammy and Elder (though I am very grateful to them both). I mean from people getting my posts via their newsreaders.

That makes sense. I get the blogs I don’t have the desire to go to physically anymore via feed. And if there’s a post I like over at Omri’s (which is, dammit, almost every one), then I’ll go check in on his blog and read more than the summary that his annoying feed now sends (SOME of us send the WHOLE post via our RSS feed, hint, hint, hint).

You’ll have to remind me of this the next time I gripe that my readership is down.

07/11/2009

The poll results

Filed under: Life, Site news — Meryl Yourish @ 9:30 am

The poll has been up for quite a while now, and it looks like the answers are staying pretty steady. Here are the results:

Number of votes for changing this site in percentage quantities
Political posts 22%
More cat posts 18%
More humor 17%
More personal posts 15%
Popular culture (TV, movies) posts 13%
Nothing, keep it like it is 10%
Other answer… 5%

And here are my responses to the various comments and numbers: I like the idea of adding more politics and more non-Israel or Jewish subject posts. I want to go back to the blog that I had a few years ago, which was a multi-subject blog that concentrated on Jewish and Israeli issues, not a blog that almost solely concentrates on Jewish and Israeli issues. The Jewish blogosphere has for the most part ignored me for a very long time. No matter how often I link out, I’m not seeing much reciprocity, and I have to tell you, my generosity only goes so far. There are a few bloggers who have always been excellent in that respect, and now people like Yid With Lid aggregate my RSS feeds (I don’t think I’ve ever thanked Sammy for that, so Sammy, thank you!).

But don’t think that I’m acting out of bitterness. I wouldn’t stop writing about Jewish and Israeli issues because I’m not getting linked. I am, after all, Jewish, and a Zionist. I am merely stating some facts that are influencing my decision. Another fact is that I am no longer linked by other bloggers who are not in the JBlogosphere because I’ve become a one-trick pony, and they have other Israel bloggers that they link. Linking is the coin of the realm, and my blog has been in the red for a while now.

Another reason for changing things around is simple: I’m bored. When I am bored, I am phoning it in. Or not posting much at all. As this is not the Soccer Dad and Snoopy blog, it behooves me to post more than my co-bloggers. And speaking of my wonderful co-bloggers: You can find much more content on Israel at their sites, as well as Jack’s. In fact, there are a ton of Jewish and Israeli bloggers listed on my navbar. If it’s information you want, you can go there. I won’t be featuring as much Israel news as I used to.

I’m planning on going back to the things that made my blog what it is today: A variety of posts about life, politics, Jewish and Israeli issues, and, of course, cats. I’ll be posting at least one weekly roundup of links that I like, blogs I’m reading, or interesting news. I am also encouraging my readers to start adding links in the comments. (I’ll add a comments plug-in that gives you rich text options; I know you’re missing that.) But keeping things the same? Well, if I do that, you can count on my quitting blogging within a year. I don’t keep on doing things that bore me. When I was bored at my job, I tried to work within the company to do something about it, or got a new job. When I am bored in my life, I change things. When I’m bored with my blog, well, the blog has to change. And I stated that in the very first post I wrote, on April 22nd, 2001:

This site will undergo many style changes in the upcoming months, as I have no real idea what I’d like the end product to look like. What I do know is that I’ve spent several years in the industry and know the difference between a point, a pica, and a pixel. I know that the Internet is a wealth of information and misinformation, and anyone can discover just about anything online if s/he looks long enough. I know that my mindset has undergone many changes in the last few years, and will doubtless undergo more as I get older. Growth is change. Stagnation, to me, is worse than death. If I cannot change, just dig me a hole, throw me in and cover me with dirt.

Yeah, not quite ready for that hole yet.

07/07/2009

A busy week for me

Filed under: Site news — Meryl Yourish @ 10:53 pm

Got slammed with work today and will be in class for the next three days up in NorVA. Oh, and I am currently suffering an influx of ants.

Fun, fun, fun.

I’ll have time to post tomorrow night. But not until.

07/06/2009

Go here for the poll

Filed under: Site news — Meryl Yourish @ 10:00 am

I got tired of the sticky post thingie. Poll is here.

07/05/2009

Keep the comments coming

Filed under: Site news — Meryl Yourish @ 6:00 am

Thanks for taking the poll. I’ll be bumping it to the top again on Monday. In the meantime, your comments have already been extremely helpful. One person suggested I write about “observations on American society and people’s behaviours,” and, well, that’s a great idea. “American Scene” is going to become a regular blog feature.

Someone else wanted me to discuss internal Israeli issues, such as conversion. Sorry, never gonna happen. First, I’m not Israeli, so I can offer, at best, an outsider’s viewpoint. Secondly, you know what? I have no desire to start religious arguments on my blog. And every time I discuss something like conversion, it brings out the worst in people. I’m going to stick to pissing off mostly non-Jews, rather than starting Jewish religious wars. It’s what I’ve been doing for eight years, and that’s not about to change. I prefer to leave religion to those that are far more knowledgeable than I.

Keep the suggestions coming. I think I’ve figured out the new format, and it’s going to involve new subjects and weekly posts on those subjects, sort of like daily newspaper sections—like the New York Times having the science section on Tuesdays, entertainment on Wednesdays, etc., etc.

And expect to see more posts on feminist issues. Now those ought to bring out the comments in droves.

07/03/2009

Blog thoughts on a holiday weekend (bumped)

Filed under: Site news — Meryl Yourish @ 3:30 pm

This blog has become a broken record. I can recycle posts from two years ago, and very little will have changed. I’m bored. You’re bored. Traffic is down. Commenting is almost nonexistent. Things need to change.

What do you want to see? I really have no idea, at this moment, what my readers want. I know a lot of you are still happy with what I’m doing, but I’m not nearly as happy doing it as I was a few years ago. Change has been the raison d’blog—when this blog gets stale, it must change or die. I don’t think I’m ready to give it up. So help me figure out how to change it.

You can add your own suggestions in the “Other” field. Please take the time if you have an idea for me.

Your input is critical, even if you never, ever comment here. If I get only a few dozen answers, well, that’s not exactly representative of the thousands of visitors I get per day. So come on, take a minute to click on the poll buttons.

You have to understand something: I’m tired of my own blog. That means that I may not want to continue blogging if I can’t change it to something that I’m happy about again. If you want me to keep blogging, well, help me out here. Because although I don’t want to quit blogging, that, too, is an option. It would free up a whole lot of time in my life.

Vote, please.

(P.S.: I opened comments. Forgot that I’d closed them to all but registered users lately.)

06/23/2009

Something’s missing from this blog

Filed under: Girl Talk, Life, Site news — Meryl Yourish @ 12:00 pm

I do believe my personal touch seems to have gone by the wayside. I rarely post about anything but the news anymore, and, well, I think you guys are getting bored with that.

I used to have a little more fun.

I wonder what happened… oh, yeah. I got busier.

But I miss posts like this. And comments like this. (Yeah, I REALLY miss Ilyka, but she just dropped off the face of the internet a while back and I can’t seem to find her again.)

I have cat pictures to put up, but it’s been a pain in the butt to choose them and get them ready for publishing, so they’re just staying in my camera. I have to find that darn cable again, too.

Last night, I took a few pictures of my new Shelob. There’s a spider who has set up her web in the corner of my garage, outside the door, so I’ve been watching in fascination as she comes out each night. Yesterday, she was doing something to a ladybug that had gotten caught in her web. I have no idea what, as she’d already half-cocooned her. I guess she was fully cocooning the ladybug. That must be the spider version of putting the food into the fridge.

Oh, the reason behind this post? I went back to find the date of this post (warning to guys who don’t like icky girl talk—don’t click the link) because I need information for a new doctor that I’m seeing later this afternoon.

Oh, and yesterday, I developed a new way to describe the onset of menopause: EFFING menopause. You have to say the word “effing” for real, and add a really, really, REALLY huge helping of scorn in order to get the effect. But that is what I am now calling EFFING menopause. I will find out later today if I’m really in it yet or not. This is not, by the way, a club that I want to be in. Alas, I have no choice.

And by the way, to all those women out there who like to glorify, sanctify, and make holy the onset of EFFING menopause: You’re all EFFING morons. Come visit me while I’m going through HulkMS. We’ll talk.

05/04/2009

Two anniversaries missed

Filed under: Life, Site news — Meryl Yourish @ 10:53 pm

Yesterday was eleven years since I quit smoking. At a carton a week, I figure I’ve saved—hm, carry the three, add a zero—uh, I have no idea. Cigarettes were about $35 a carton in New Jersey when I quit, I think. I know the nicotine patches were more expensive than smoking. For the past six years I would have been paying Virginia prices, which were twentysomething a carton until recently. I think, though, it’s pretty safe to say that I’ve saved nearly enough money to buy a Jeep Wrangler. Which, come to think of it, I own. Kewl.

The other anniversary I forgot: April 22nd started my ninth year of blogging. Wow. That’s longer than anything I’ve ever done, except smoke. And blogging is way healthier for me.

Come to think of it, blogging didn’t drive me back to smoking. Not even during the worst of the blogwars.

Well, here’s to at least another year or two. I’m not bored yet. And I have all these nifty-keen cobloggers to help me out, now. Thanks, folks! And thanks to all the readers who have been with me all these years. Have I got anyone left from year one? I know someone who found me on my first blogiversary, but I’m not sure I still have my early readers. Well, if you’re out there: Wow.

04/27/2009

Why I do the thing I do

Filed under: Anti-Semitism, Site news — Meryl Yourish @ 12:00 pm

Someone reached my site this morning with a Google search on “difference between Jews and Nazis.” That search led them to this post that I wrote in 2006. I had frankly forgotten that I wrote it. But I’m really glad I did, because it’s the first thing that shows up in that specific Google search. And that means that people out there who are trying to find that there’s no difference between Jews and Nazis are discovering how very wrong they are.

Every so often, I am reminded why I keep on fighting the rising tide of anti-Israel and anti-Jewish sentiment in the world.

This is why.

04/26/2009

Comments and registration

Filed under: Site news — Meryl Yourish @ 9:07 pm

I’m getting spammed like crazy, and while the comments are going into the spam filter, it annoys me enough that I’ve just turned registration back on in order to comment.

Which means the spammers will force me to close registration shortly, I’m sure.

Oh, well.

Stupid php

Filed under: Site news — Meryl Yourish @ 2:12 pm

Okay, I’m trying to revive my programming chops to add a “next post/last post” tag to the current theme, and, well, not doing so well at it. Since I only have a few more hours to myself this afternoon, it’s going to have to wait until I have more time.

Unless one of my programming readers wants to traverse the WordPress Codex and give me the lines of code I’ll need to add to the file.

I would like to figure it out for myself, but time is in short supply these days.

I will also be auditioning comment plug-ins. When one is deemed safe from attack, I’ll add it to make commenting a bit easier. Mind you, the rules still apply: No flames, and no Israel bashing.

04/15/2009

Got tired of serif fonts

Filed under: Site news — Meryl Yourish @ 12:30 pm

Lucida. Ugh. I’ll take a simple Helvetica clone over that any day.

I also need to do a bit of tweaking to make the text more readable. I don’t know why people seem to think that 100% black isn’t a readable font. It works for me.

You know, I may just stick with this theme and add my old header to it and change some colors around. It’s good for me to get into some CSS work somewhere besides the workplace.

Suggestions?

Update: Oops, missed a few font calls in the style sheet. I’ll get to them later.

04/12/2009

A thank-you note to my readers

Filed under: Site news — Meryl Yourish @ 5:27 pm

I’d like to thank you all for sticking with me these past couple of weeks. The site statistics have barely changed at all even through all the blog-hopping, changing to the old html style, and going through all the changes right here on WordPress.

I have some pretty awesome readers.

In the meantime…

Filed under: Site news — Meryl Yourish @ 5:17 pm

Still have a lot of posts over on my Blogspot blog that probably won’t get transferred over here, as you can get them on Soccer Dad’s and Snoopy’s blogs. Jack’s too.

I’ll be putting a few of the Blogspot posts over to here, but you’ll need to go to the above blogs to read anything that was crossposted in the last couple of weeks. In fact, I highly recommend reading my cobloggers’ blogs, as they don’t post all of their posts here.

We should be back to business as usual regarding posting. User registration is closed until further notice. Comments are open for now, but you must be registered and logged in to post a comment.

Give us a few more weeks to get back to normal. We want to make sure I don’t have to use my Blogspot blog again.

RSS feed test

Filed under: Site news — Meryl Yourish @ 4:15 pm

Okay, if you’re having trouble getting an RSS feed, close out your email/RSS client and restart it. I had to do that with Thunderbird, and you may have to do it with yours. We’re working on the rest of the RSS problems.

Under construction

Filed under: Site news — Meryl Yourish @ 3:42 pm

Give us a little bit of time to get things going. I’ll let you know what needs to be done once we’re ready.

03/20/2009

Life intrudes; blog recedes

Filed under: Site news — Meryl Yourish @ 11:26 pm

I have out-of-town company, and that utterly trumps approving anti-Israel comments in a day-old post. Or any other bloggy stuff.

It’s going to be gorgeous tomorrow, and we’ll be seeing the sights.

A quick note to regular readers

Filed under: Site news — Meryl Yourish @ 8:39 am

If you’re a regular reader and want to comment sometime in the future, you may want to register now before I make commenting registration-only again.

I don’t need a lot of information—but you do need a valid email address or you can’t reset your password when you misplace it.

03/19/2009

Let’s try a thought experiment

Filed under: Site news — Meryl Yourish @ 3:31 pm

I just disabled registration and enabled commenting.

Soccer Dad’s previous post got picked up by Yahoo! News.

Shall we start a pool on the number of anti-Israel comments that wind up in the moderation queue?

Update: Two in eleven minutes.

Update two: Way more than that. Five in the pending queue (probably won’t get approved), several approved, and more coming.

03/15/2009

Registration is open for a while

Filed under: Site news — Meryl Yourish @ 4:14 pm

At least until the spammers twig to it again and start adding bogus accounts. Not that it really does them any good. I have about four or five levels of spam protection for the blog.

03/11/2009

Comment trouble

Filed under: Site news — Meryl Yourish @ 2:30 pm

For a reason that I can’t determine, some legitimate user comments are heading into the spam filter. I rescued three of them today, but a few were a couple of days old.

If you’re a regular commenter here, and your comment disappears into the ether, let me know.

03/09/2009

User registration is closed

Filed under: Site news — Meryl Yourish @ 7:00 pm

Registration is closed because, once again, I am tired of seeing spammers register tons of bogus accounts. I would go into details about how I can tell they’re spammers, but that would simply give the more enterprising ones ways of getting around my methods.

If you would like to register an account for commenting purposes, email me. It’s an easy one to remember: My first name at my last name dot com.

02/03/2009

Site problems, again

Filed under: Site news — Meryl Yourish @ 5:28 pm

Yes, my site was suspended again today. There seems to be a SQL query problem that was hanging up the CPU on my server, and Bluehost frowns upon that. So I was down for quite some time, until I brought in the big guns, a friend of mine who could staff Bluehost’s entire tech and abuse department single-handed. We figured out a likely culprit and, we think, solved the problem. I’ll know for sure in a week or so.

I have to say I’m not very fond of Bluehost’s habit of suspending your site until you convince them you can fix, or have fixed, the problem. None of my other hosts ever did that when there was a CPU problem.

In any case, things are working again. If I’m right about what was wrong, they should stay working.

01/31/2009

Registration is closed

Filed under: Site news — Meryl Yourish @ 10:07 pm

I’m tired of Russian spammers registering bogus user accounts, so registration is going to be closed until I feel like reopening it.

If you’re not a Russian spammer, and not an anti-Israel tool, email me and I’ll see about squeezing you in.

01/21/2009

The reports of my demise…

Filed under: Site news — Meryl Yourish @ 11:44 pm

Sorry, folks. I had site issues that caused Bluehost to suspend my account. Something was making me a CPU hog, and apparently, the punishment for that is very severe. Plus, I was at Job in Northern Virginia, so my time to fix things was limited. Which is why I got Jay to update the software for me.

And when I got home from work, the last thing I wanted to do was work on the site. Especially since the premiere of Lost was tonight.

(Wow, they did it again. Bad guys, good guys, who can tell?)

Well, we’re back now. And you’ll have more substantive posts tomorrow. In the meantime, we can all discuss Lost in the comments to this post.

Sawyer. Dude. Lose the extra weight. Or bring back Jin, ’cause you’re just not doing it for me anymore.

(I’m so lying. I’ll take him, flabby belly and all.)

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