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		<title>One more penalty on thriftiness</title>
		<link>http://www.yourish.com/2012/02/09/15735</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2012 13:30:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Meryl Yourish</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Let&#8217;s review: I refused to get a mortgage I couldn&#8217;t afford. I didn&#8217;t get a balloon mortgage. I didn&#8217;t buy my condo until I was sure of two things: That my contracting job would be a full-time staff position, and &#8230; <a href="http://www.yourish.com/2012/02/09/15735">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Let&#8217;s review: I refused to get a mortgage I couldn&#8217;t afford. I didn&#8217;t get a balloon mortgage. I didn&#8217;t buy my condo until I was sure of two things: That my contracting job would be a full-time staff position, and that my debt was paid down considerably before I bought it.</p>
<p>There is also the fact that when I set foot into a Ryan Homes office on July 3, 2007, I was given the hard-sale pitch, told I could effectively buy a condo with little or no money down, and that my debt wouldn&#8217;t be a problem, because a quick credit check showed that I could afford one up to, oh, $400,000. And if I acted now, they&#8217;d throw in several thousand dollars off the price. But I&#8217;d have to act soon, because the townhouses were going fast!</p>
<p>I walked out of that office without signing through sheer strength of will, knowing that I was being sold a load of goods and that I didn&#8217;t have to sign anything without thinking it over at length. I waited a year before buying my condo, paying down significant chunks of my debt in the meantime. When I finally did get a mortgage, I took advantage of the $7,500 home buying loan, which is a <em>loan</em> that I am paying back to the government each year on my 1040. A few months after I bought my condo, that loan became a credit.</p>
<p>Now the government is trying to work the housing market by making banks give <a href="http://money.cnn.com/2012/02/08/news/economy/mortgage_settlement/index.htm">money to people whose houses are underwater</a> and who <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2012/02/09/business/states-negotiate-25-billion-deal-for-homeowners.html?_r=1&#038;pagewanted=all">can&#8217;t make the mortgage payments</a>. The article does not say whether it covers people who bought houses they could not afford with ARMs that they hoped would never take effect because they were trying to flip the house for a profit. It doesn&#8217;t say whether it covers people who didn&#8217;t care that they were buying a house they couldn&#8217;t afford, because they were betting on being able to get a better job, or something. All it says is that the big five banks are going to help homeowners who are about to be foreclosed on for whatever reason.</p>
<p>And you and I will ultimately be footing the bill for this.</p>
<p>My condo is currently underwater. It&#8217;s lost around 15% of its value, I think. I&#8217;m a little afraid to compare the current assessment with the original assessment. But I refinanced my mortgage last year and always had one that I could afford. I&#8217;ll never be a <a href="http://washingtonexaminer.com/opinion/columnists/2012/02/its-takers-versus-makers-and-these-days-takers-are-winning/238146">moocher</a>. I&#8217;m just a stupid working stiff who thinks part of being a grownup is being responsible for your own actions, and waiting until you can afford the house that you bought. Go figure.</p>
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		<title>Well, I did write today&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://www.yourish.com/2012/02/05/15710</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Feb 2012 02:03:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Meryl Yourish</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[But it was for me. I&#8217;m close to the halfway point with my novel, and put about another 2000 words on it this weekend. You know, if it&#8217;s a choice between the blog and my novel, the blog is always &#8230; <a href="http://www.yourish.com/2012/02/05/15710">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>But it was for me. I&#8217;m close to the halfway point with my novel, and put about another 2000 words on it this weekend. You know, if it&#8217;s a choice between the blog and my novel, the blog is always going to lose.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m on target to be finished by the end of May, so we&#8217;ll see what happens this summer.</p>
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		<title>25 years online</title>
		<link>http://www.yourish.com/2012/02/02/15703</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2012 18:30:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Meryl Yourish</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Twenty-five years ago today, I opened my BBS to the public. It had one telephone line, so when one person was on it, everyone else got a busy signal. It was 2400 baud. Woo! So fast! I think I used &#8230; <a href="http://www.yourish.com/2012/02/02/15703">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Twenty-five years ago today, I opened my BBS to the public. It had one telephone line, so when one person was on it, everyone else got a busy signal. It was 2400 baud. Woo! So fast! I think I used to get about 30 hits a day, and I knew nearly everyone who called, especially after we started having our BBS get-togethers every month or so. The site was all message threads, with various topics, ranging from politics to storyboards (I cannot tell you how much fun it was to write Cap&#8217;n Claws, the pirate who had an adamantium hook and hated the French) and beyond. I stayed online with Through the Looking Glass for seven years, then went into the GEnie network and other online services until blogging came to my attention in 2000. And of course, in the spring of 2001, I started Yourish.com.</p>
<p>Twenty-five years online. (Twenty-six, when you count in the year I spent BBSing myself before I started the BBS.) I believe that&#8217;s longer than the millennials have been alive.</p>
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		<title>Oh, I almost forgot</title>
		<link>http://www.yourish.com/2012/01/28/15670</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Jan 2012 04:22:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Meryl Yourish</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Been a busy day. Writing, concert-going, and tablet-buying. More tomorrow.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Been a busy day. Writing, concert-going, and tablet-buying.</p>
<p>More tomorrow.</p>
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		<title>Hebrew-English translator in Jerusalem</title>
		<link>http://www.yourish.com/2012/01/24/15654</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Jan 2012 23:43:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Meryl Yourish</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Anyone need a translator? Rahel Jaskow is looking for work. Know anyone who needs an excellent editor, Hebrew &#8211;> English translator or entry-level technical writer? If you do, please send them my way! My Word skills are top-notch, I&#8217;m extremely &#8230; <a href="http://www.yourish.com/2012/01/24/15654">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Anyone need a translator?</p>
<p><a href="http://elmsintheyard.blogspot.com/">Rahel Jaskow</a> is looking for work.</p>
<p>Know anyone who needs an excellent editor, Hebrew &#8211;> English translator or entry-level technical writer? If you do, please send them my way! My Word skills are top-notch, I&#8217;m extremely computer-literate, experienced, and a fast learner and worker. Tight deadline? No problem. Have laptop (Windows 7, MS Office 2010), will travel. Excellent references. Discreet. And I bake really good sourdough bread, too!</p>
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		<title>It was a productive writing day&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://www.yourish.com/2012/01/22/15644</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jan 2012 03:24:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Meryl Yourish</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[but not for the blog. I wrote and recorded my last-ever Shire Network News segment, and also put down another 1100 words in the novel. That&#8217;s why there were no posts today.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>but not for the blog.</p>
<p>I wrote and recorded my last-ever Shire Network News segment, and also put down another 1100 words in the novel.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s why there were no posts today.</p>
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		<title>So does one twinday plus another twinday equal Twinsday?</title>
		<link>http://www.yourish.com/2012/01/21/15642</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Jan 2012 02:48:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Meryl Yourish</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Years ago, before I was gainfully employed at a full-time job, I used to spend every Thursday with my friend Sarah and her twin toddlers. It started with a &#8220;Hey, you want to come to the Farmer&#8217;s Market with me?&#8221; &#8230; <a href="http://www.yourish.com/2012/01/21/15642">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Years ago, before I was gainfully employed at a full-time job, I used to spend every Thursday with my friend <a href="http://lifeatfullvolume.blogspot.com/">Sarah</a> and her twin toddlers. It started with a &#8220;Hey, you want to come to the Farmer&#8217;s Market with me?&#8221; and became an every Thursday occurrence, keeping up even after I was working full-time. Sarah would just meet me for lunch either at my place of employment, if it was cool, or we&#8217;d meet somewhere around it. The kids loved coming to my work, because Genworth and Circuit City had some pretty decent cafeterias. Circuit City was much better, because it was that much bigger.</p>
<p>Well, last week I decided to ask Sarah if Rebecca might want to see Beauty &#038; the Beast with me, since I love musicals, and Ashman and Menken put out several great musicals for Disney (not to mention the off-Broadway smash, Little Shop of Horrors) until Ashman succumbed to AIDS a decade ago. Rebecca was just fine with hanging out with Aunt Meryl.  She played with her DSI while I got a haircut, then we saw the movie and had dinner together, then home she went. And then I realized, hey, I&#8217;ve had alone time with big brother Jake, and alone time with second-oldest boy Nate, and now with Rebecca&#8211;but I couldn&#8217;t recall just having some Max and me time.</p>
<p>So today, we went to Laser Quest, where Aunt Meryl and her trusty flanker, Max, kicked butt. We played air hockey (he won). And then we went home and rented Cowboys and Aliens and had some dinner. So now all four have had some Aunt Meryl alone time, and Aunt Meryl got to see two movies she wanted to see, as well as play some laser tag. I love laser tag. It was called Photon in the 80s when I first started playing it, and I liked it so much I was on a team, and we flew to Dallas to learn from the people who invented it. I&#8217;d go back on a team in a heartbeat if they had them around here.</p>
<p>All this, and I went to services this morning, too. A good day. A <em>very</em> good day.</p>
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		<title>A study in Gracie, and bloggy thoughts</title>
		<link>http://www.yourish.com/2012/01/20/15639</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jan 2012 19:11:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Meryl Yourish</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Caught an unusual pose for Gracie this morning, and had to share. She was unusually affectionate today. I picked her up for a &#8220;hug&#8221; and she didn&#8217;t push away with her front paws (she usually hates being held, but will &#8230; <a href="http://www.yourish.com/2012/01/20/15639">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Caught an unusual pose for Gracie this morning, and had to share.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.yourish.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/DSC06007.jpg"><img src="http://www.yourish.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/DSC06007-1024x768.jpg" alt="Gracie at rest" title="Gracie at rest" width="640" height="480" class="alignnone size-large wp-image-15640" /></a></p>
<p>She was unusually affectionate today. I picked her up for a &#8220;hug&#8221; and she didn&#8217;t push away with her front paws (she usually hates being held, but will tolerate it for a brief time). And I started calculating her age, as her birthday is March 15th. She will be fifteen years old. This is that cat who I&#8217;ve seen near death twice. I did not think she&#8217;d outlive Tigger 2. He was healthy; she&#8217;s always been sickly. Obviously, I was wrong. I guess she has seven more lives to go. Meantime, Tig 3.0 will be four on February 18th. Yes, it&#8217;s been that long. Hey, I celebrated my third anniversary in this condo in September, and in a few weeks, will have been working at Job in Northern VA for five years, as a contractor and staffer. </p>
<p>You know, three of the five things I&#8217;ve mentioned in this post came about at least in part due to this blog. I got my condo partly as a result of my job, which I got via a tip from a friend who became one from reading my blog. And I found Tig 3.0 through the advice of a friend at work, who got two Maine Coon cats from <a href="http://www.wendysfelinefriends.org/">Wendy&#8217;s Feline Friends</a> and suggested I look there for a Maine Coon kitten. Blogs are amazing. I wonder what else lies in store for me via this blog?</p>
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		<title>Sick day</title>
		<link>http://www.yourish.com/2012/01/14/15614</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jan 2012 02:13:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Meryl Yourish</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Whatever plans I had for this first day of my three-day weekend fell by the wayside. I woke up this morning with what I think is a 24-hour bug. Could not get out of bed until it was way too &#8230; <a href="http://www.yourish.com/2012/01/14/15614">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Whatever plans I had for this first day of my three-day weekend fell by the wayside. I woke up this morning with what I think is a 24-hour bug. Could not get out of bed until it was way too late to go to services, which is a good thing for the people in my synagogue, what with my having a bug and all that. Got up, had breakfast, went back to bed, slept until lunchtime, got up, and had about enough energy to sit in my comfy chair and watch TV and make a couple of phone calls.</p>
<p>Almost time for bed now. I feel better, but still not best.</p>
<p>Well, I have two more days this weekend, so all is not lost.</p>
<p>Plus, my mom is getting better, so that&#8217;s a good, good thing.</p>
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		<title>Happiness&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://www.yourish.com/2012/01/13/15610</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jan 2012 13:47:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Meryl Yourish</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[is finding out you have a three-day weekend on a Friday. This is the only job I&#8217;ve ever had that gives everyone Martin Luther King Jr. day off, which is why I always forget that fact.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>is finding out you have a three-day weekend on a Friday. This is the only job I&#8217;ve ever had that gives everyone Martin Luther King Jr. day off, which is why I always forget that fact.</p>
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